Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Perfect Opportunity

It never fails, whenever I go to a store I always get a little flirt action at the register.

Like, yesterday when I went to Blockbuster, I had a coupon to rent a DVD at a discount price. When I gave it to the cashier, he jokingly said, "We are not taking these coupons today."

I pretended I thought he was being serious and then when he let up, I giggled. But then that was it, he rang me up when I left. My friends would say I should have said something else but really, what else is there to say?

Anything else would have just felt like a forced conversation and thats what all daters try to avoid.

Maybe he was just being friendly or maybe he just wanted to see me smile. Either way, it was just of those weird things where neither of you know what say, so you leave it at.

Besides, I highly doubt I just let Mr. Right slip away.

I Don't Want to Date My Father

Why are all old men attracted to me? Just today I went to the supermarket and as I was walking back to my car a horn honked and as he drove by I saw that he was old enough to be my father.

I thought to myself, "WTF". I know I'm not alone, all of you girls in you 20s know exactly what I'm talking about. Everyday we are whistled at, honked at and talked at by dirty old men.

If they were George Clooney, it'd be different but since they're not I'm disgusted. Not all of us want a Sugar Daddy but they don't get that.

Women, what signals are you giving these men that they keeping going after more?

The only person I want to call or think of as my daddy is the man who helped give me life.

Dressing for Myself

When I wake up in the morning, I try on many clothes before finding the outfit of the day. My decision is most often based on how I feel about my appearance.

I dress for Kristin and no one else but, not every other person does the same. We look in the mirror hoping that something about the clothes we wear will make the oppposite sex, or same sex think we're hot.

For women, its all about wearing less clothing and showing more skin and for men its about looking clean-cut and wearing heavy cologne.

Really, who are we kidding? It's not the clothes that attract us to each other, it's our face and personality.

If I look at you with a sparkle in my eye and you can make me laugh, we're set. Yes, I should like the way you look but you shouldn't dress with the intention of pleasing another.

I like dressing for me, it's fun.