Don't Knock It Til You Try It

In a conversation with a couple of friends they told me of several weird and strange situations with their significant others.

I was blown away, not by the situation, but because I couldn't understand the logic behind it; it was a mystery to me. Of course, I'm not going to tell you what they said, but I will say this, I don't think I'll ever understand it (trust me I understand a lot)!

So anyway, a few days later, I spoke with one of my friends and her explanation was that she couldn't explain it (way to go). She said it's just one of those things that happens and you just go with it because it doesn't feel weird at all.

The point is at the end of the day my lesson was basically not to knock it until I've tried it.

I doubt if that happens.

Love Gone Wrong

Five months after the assaulting Rihanna, Chris Brown made a public apology saying there was no excuse for his actions.



So what's the deal on his ultra late public apology? I can't say his apology in general is late because he said he's already apologized to Rihanna, but does anyone else think his statement should have come out a while ago? Or at least right after his court hearing.

I'm still on the fence about him.

Falling In Love With Love

Disney Films are all about the happy ending. For several of the fairytales the happy endings come with falling in love.

However, love is not like a fairytale. It comes with hard work and sleepless nights, it comes with heartache and headache but, in the beginning isn't it just fun?


Going out, waiting for that person to call or talking all night long and not worrying about getting up the next day is fun. It's the time you fall in love and love the idea of being in love.

So why not enjoy it while it last and even when things get tough, remember how it felt falling in love with love.

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40 Can Be Fun

So I was hit on not once today but twice, but by older men. One man was in his late 20s/early 30s and the other was 40; he told me so.

Ironically the 40-year-old man was much more attractive and suave than the younger and if he wasn't so much older or I wasn't so much younger I would have given him a shot.

I think if I were around 25 or so I'd go out with him. I shared this with my mother and sister and neither of them approved. As a liberal thinker I always believe that you should be with whoever makes you happy, no matter age, race, gender etc.

While age differences can strain relationships I don't think there's any harm in giving it a shot. Besides the difference between this older man and the others I've referenced is that there was potential for a mutual attraction.

She's Just Not That Into You

Hopefully you've read the book or saw the movie "He's Just Not That Into You," because what I'm about to say should sound familar but with a twist.

Guys often make moves that don't make sense and sometimes they make moves that freak girls out. If I have to ask, "Who's the girl in this relationship," then you need to back up.

If we've just met and you're getting serious a little too quickly, then you need to back up. If I answer your texts and not your calls, well then you figure it out.

Don't assume all girls are the same and do not assume everyone is into you.

Let me cut to the chase, guys, if she want's you she'll make it happen. If a few weeks pass and you're going nowhere...she's just not that into you.

Jon and Hailey Plus ?

So while we're on the subject of young girls, why is 22-year-old Hailey Glassmen dating Jon Gosselin? He's not that rich and he's not that big of a celebrity.


I mean let's think about it, he's getting a public divorce and he has eight children. He has eight children, he has eight children, he has eight children!

No offense to all the men out there taking care of their kids but, if I'm 22 I don't want to be around one child let alone eight.

The sex can't be that great, can it?

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We Need to Talk Young Girls

I love my generation but sometimes I don't get us. Why are we the ones who "fall in love" in high school and think it will last forever?

I was watching the Wendy Williams Show and a 18/19-year-old asked Wendy what should she do about her boyfriend of 3.5 years who broke up with her because he knows they'll get married and he wants to have his fun now.

What the hell was she talking about? "Was she serious,: I asked myself and then I remembered that I've heard that story many times before, from my own friends. And all the times I've heard it I've had to pretend as if I believed the crap that was coming out of their mouths. What I really wanted to say was, "You're not going to be together next week, let alone in 10 or 15 years."

Young girls, myself included (occasionally), think realistically and GET IT TOGETHER!